Kodi mwangomaliza kulandira chiitanidwe chotsatira chamadzulo? Talingalirani izi ndi ulemu ndipo onetsetsani kuti mukuchita zomwe zimatengera kuti mukhalebe mndandanda wa alendo mtsogolo mwa kuphunzira zomwe mukuyembekezera.
Ambiri a ife talandira maitanidwe kumalo osungira zakunja , chakudya chamadzulo , komanso kusonkhana ndi anzathu. Komabe, chakudya chamadzulo sichiri chofala monga momwe kale analiri, kotero onetsetsani kuti mumatsuka pa tebulo kuti mudye.
Kuika mtima kwanu pamakhalidwe abwino kudzakhala malo apadera mu mtima wanu.
Funso
Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati ndalandira chiitano chodyera?
Ndangolandira chiitanidwe ku phwando lapadera ndipo sindikumudziwa bwino. Chonde lembani zothandiza zothandiza zomwe mungachite.
Yankho
Kaya mwafunsidwa kuti mupite ku phwando lokondweredwa lokhala ndi mnzanu kapena kuti mukumva kuti mukuyenera kupita kumodzi kuti mugwire ntchito zamalonda, muyenera kutsatira ndondomeko zoyenera zogwirizana ndi kuvomereza kapena kuchepa. Ngakhale kuti mungayang'ane ndi mantha, makamaka ngati simukudziwa bwino ndikudya zakudya zokhazokha ndipo mukudandaula kuti mungadzipusitse nokha, yesetsani kuganizira ngati zosangalatsa zina. Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu ndikuti muyenera kuvala pang'ono, kutsatira ndondomeko yoyenera, ndikudziwa zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito .
Kulandira Kuitana
Nazi malingaliro omwe mungafunike kutsatira ngati mukufuna kuvomereza kuyitana:
- Fufuzani kalendala yanu kuti muwonetsetse kuti mulibe mikangano pa tsiku limenelo kapena pa nthawi yomweyi.
- Yankhani kwa wothandizirayo ndi RSVP mwachindunji momwe mukufunsidwa. Nthaŵi ina nthawi yomwe inagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi makalata, koma tsopano magulu amodzi amakonda makalata kapena "kulandira" kapena "kuchepa" kupyolera pa tsamba loitana.
- Musamangoganizira za zakudya zomwe mumakonda. Komabe, ndi bwino kulola mnzanuyo kudziwa ngati muli ndi chifuwa chachikulu.
- Ngati muli bwenzi ndi mnzanuyo, funsani ngati pali chilichonse chimene mungachite kuti muthandize. Landirani yankho lililonse lomwe laperekedwa popanda kutsutsana.
- Ngati simukudziwa bwino momwe muyenera kuvala, funsani ndi kufunsa. Mukufuna kutsimikiza kuti muli ndi zovala zoyenera .
- Sankhani munthu wothandizira kapena wothandizira mphatso zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito pambuyo poti alendo onse achoka. Musaganize kuti wothandizirayo azigwiritsa ntchito patsikulo.
Kuthetsa Kuitana
Ngati simungathe kupezekapo , lolani munthuyo kuti adziwe mwamsanga. Izi ndi zofunika pakukonzekera. Kuchita izi kungachititse kuti wogwiritsa ntchito ndalamazo azigwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri kuposa zofunikira kapena kusiya wina wina payekha.
Pa Party
Mukadzafika ku phwando la chakudya, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe muyenera kukumbukira zomwe zidzakhala zosiyana ndi zochitika zambiri. Tsatirani malangizo awa, ndipo mudzakhala bwino:
- Bwerani pa nthawi. Kuchedwa kumatha kuponyera phwando lonselo ndikupanga mavuto ena kwa wolandira. Ngati muli ndi vuto lokhala pa nthawi, yikirani maso anu kuti musachedwe. Kuchedwa nthawi zonse sikungakhale kovomerezeka pokhapokha mutakhala ndi tayala lakuthwa kapena chithandizo chamankhwala.
- Khala komwe umapemphedwa kukakhala. Mungapeze khadi lapafupi pa tebulo ndi dzina lanu pa ilo. Pali chifukwa cha izi kuti woyang'anirayo wakhala akugwira ntchito maola ambiri.
- Yembekezani. Muyenera nthawi zonse kuyembekezera kuti woyambayo ayambe kudya musanatenge mphanda wanu.
- Dya mbaleyo bwino. Pamene wina akupempha chinachake chimene chiri patsogolo pako, pita mbaleyo popanda kutenga kanthu. Ndiye dikirani mpaka kubwereranso musanadzipangitse nokha.
- Osati kukangana pa chirichonse. Ngati mukufuna chakudya, chachikulu! Sangalalani. Ngati simunayeserepo chakudya, tengani kuluma kamodzi musanapange chisankho. Ngati mukudziwa kuti simukuzikonda, idyani zakudya zomwe zili pafupi ndikusunga ndemanga. Musayambe kuchita zambiri pazinthu zomwe simukuziganizira.
Pambuyo pa Party
Posakhalitsa, tumizani ndemanga yothokoza kuti mudziwe momwe mumasangalalira phwando.
Mukhoza kutumiza mphatso yamathokoza ngati mukufuna.
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