Inde, ana anu angaphunzire kuyeretsa popanda kugwedeza
Zosewera zimayendayenda paliponse, zovala zimatayika pansi, bedi limene lasowa pansi pa zinyama zamtengo wapatali za zoo ... ngati ndinu kholo, inu mumadziŵa ndithu kuyesetsa koti mwana wanu ayambe kuyeretsa chipinda chake - vuto lomwe zosavuta kuposa zomwe nthawi zambiri zimathera pomwe mukugwira ntchitoyi nokha. Chinsinsi chogonjetsa nkhondoyi ndi kuphunzitsa ana anu momwe angachitire ntchito okha - pambuyo pa zonse, zizoloŵezi zopangidwa mu ubwana (zabwino ndi zoipa) ndizozosavuta kuti zikhalepo kwa moyo wawo wonse.
Pano pali mfundo zisanu ndi ziwiri zothandiza ana anu kuphunzira chisangalalo cha chipinda chogona chomwe chimagwirira ntchito kwa iwo, osati motsutsana nawo.
Yambani Achinyamata
Ngati mudikira mpaka mwana wanu ali wachinyamata , mwayi wokhala ndi chizoloŵezi chabwino komanso choyenera. Zaka zachinyamata zingakhale zovuta zokha popanda kupanga nkhondo zosafunika. M'malo mwake, muyenera kuyamba pamene mwana wanu akadali wamng'ono - ngakhale khanda. Ayi, izo sizikutanthauza kuti miyezi yanu isanu ndi iwiri idzatenga masewera ake omwe; koma zikutanthawuza kuti, "Nthawi yotsuka zovala zako zoyera!" kapena, "Tiyeni tiyike Bambo Stuffed Horse tisanawerenge Goodnight Moon " kumathandiza kuti mwana wanu agwiritse ntchito lingaliro lokhala ndi dongosolo losavuta gawo la moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku.
Aloleni Athandizeni
Mwinamwake mukuyembekezera kuti ana anu azikhala okhaokha tsiku limodzi, kotero musapangitse kulakwa kwakukulu kochitira zinthu zambiri kwa ana anu kuti athe kusamalira okha. Kuyambira panthawi yochepa, funsani mwana wanu kuti asamalire chipinda chake chogona (kuphatikizapo kuthandizira ntchito zina zapakhomo pakhomo.) Popeza kuti zaka zapanda kusukulu zimakonda kugwira ntchito zapakhomo (pali chifukwa chosewera khitchini ndi zing'onozing'ono oyeretsa otetezedwa ndi otchuka kwambiri), mungapeze mwana wanu kuti akhale wothandizira.
Ngati mwana wanu akukalamba kuti ayende, akula msinkhu kuti aike chiweto chogona "kuti agone," malo amatha kubwerera mu bokosi lawo ndikunyamula sapulo yakuda ku kabichi. Ana okalamba akhoza kupanga bedi, kuika masewera pamasalefu, kupachika malaya awo, ndi kuyika zovala zobvala zovala zoyenera.
Perekani Zida Zabwino
Simungathe kuyembekezera kuti mwana (kapena wachinyamata, pa nkhaniyi) asunge chipinda chawo ngati alibe zida zogwirira ntchitoyo. Khalani kosavuta kwa mwana wanu wamng'ono kuti azisungunuka mwa kusunga chipinda chawo ndi zina mwa zotsatirazi:
- Bokosi lalikulu la chidole
- Tsegulani masamulo ndi mabasiketi kapena mabokosi kuti mutenge zojambula zazing'ono ndi zopangira zida
- Wopanga bungwe lopangika kuti asonkhanitse zovala za sabata
- Mabokosi osungiramo oponderezedwa
- Mtsuko womangirira ukugwira nyama zowakulungidwa
- Nkhonya za jekete, zokopa zamagulu ndi zipewa
Ma Labels Amapangitsa Kuti Kukhale Kosavuta
Kapepala kogwira dzanja ndi bwenzi lanu pamene ana anu ali aang'ono. Gwiritsani ntchito kupanga malemba kwa ovala zovala (tee-shirts, pajamas, masokosi, etc.), mabotolo osungirako pulasitiki (makrayoni, mafilimu, Moto Wopatsa, Legos), masamulo (masewera a mpira, mabuku, sayansi ya sayansi), ndi china chirichonse mukuwona kuti ndi kofunikira. Ngati mwana wanu sanawerenge pano, mugwiritse ntchito pogwiritsidwa ntchito kapena mujambula zithunzi m'malo mwa mawu. Mwanjira iliyonse, tsopano mwana wanu ali ndi chikumbutso chowonekera cha zomwe zikupita, kuti zikhale zophweka kubwezeretsa chirichonse kumalo ake oyenera kumapeto kwa tsiku.
Malo A Chilichonse Ndi Zonse Zili M'mavuto Ake
Zizolowezi zimakula mwa khalidwe losasinthasintha. Ngati mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu kuti chirichonse chomwe chili m'chipinda chake chimakhala ndi malo ake enieni, ndipo chiyenera kubwezeredwa kumalo amenewa mutatha kugwiritsa ntchito, kusungunula kumakhala kachiwiri.
Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kukhala omveka ndi osagwirizana; kungouza mwanayo "kuyeretsa chipinda chanu" kumakhala kovuta. Kufunsa mwana kuti azisamalira mwanayo akadziŵa kumene zinthu ziyenera kuchitika zimakhala ntchito yosavuta (komanso yofulumira).
Dziwani Mwana Wanu
Ana osiyana amaphunzira m'njira zosiyanasiyana, ndithudi, ndipo ana onse ali ndi umunthu wawo wapadera. Ndichifukwa chake ngakhale abale athu akhoza kuchita mosiyana. Kotero muyenera kukulitsa zoyembekezera zanu ndi malangizo kwa ana anu onse, kukumbukira zaka zawo, luso ndi umunthu wawo. Mwinamwake Anne akusowa malangizo omveka bwino komanso kukhalapo kwapafupi kuti akwaniritse mchenga wa kuchapa, koma Alex akusankha kuti azichita yekha. Njira zonsezi ndi zabwino malinga ndi zotsatira zake zofanana: chipinda chogona ndi chokonzekera .
Chitsanzo chabwino cha khalidwe
N'zosamveka kuyembekezera kuti mwana wanu asunge chipinda chake choyera ngati chipinda chanu chimawoneka ngati malo oopsa .
Ana - makamaka ana aang'ono kwambiri - phunzirani makamaka mwa kuziwona ndi kutsanzira. Choncho perekani chitsanzo cha zizoloŵezi zomwe mukufuna kuphunzitsa. Ikani zovala zanu mukamayanika, osati masiku ena. Yambani kusamba kwanu; musati muzisiye izo zidakulungidwa pa phazi la bedi. Chitani chizoloŵezi kubwezera mbaleyo kuchokera ku zakumwa zozizira usiku kupita ku khitchini tsiku loyamba m'mawa, ndi kuchotseratu makope awo omwe amawerengedwa kale. Sikuti kokha chipinda chanu chidzapindula, koma mwana wanu adzaphunzira kuti kukhala wamkulu kumatanthauza kusamalira chuma cha munthu ndi kuchita ntchito za panthaŵi yake: maphunziro awiri abwino omwe amanyamula kutali ndi chipinda.