Tsiku lafika. Posachedwa kukhala "mwana wamkulu" ali pafupi kale kukumba kwake, ndipo ndi nthawi yopanga kusintha kwakukulu kochokera ku crib kupita ku kama. Ngati mulibe kachilombo koyambako, kapena ngati mukusowa chophimba chanu chotengera mbale wanu wamng'ono, mwina mukuganiza ngati ndi bwino kugula bedi lapasa kwa mwana wamng'ono .
Ngakhale bedi laling'ono liri ndi ubwino wake, monga makina oyang'anira ndi makina ochepa pakati pa mwana wanu ndi pansi, palibe chifukwa chomwe simungasinthire mwana wanu wachindunji ku bedi lalikulu.
Kugwira ntchito ndi bajeti yolimba ? Kupewera njirayi yachikhalidwe kungakhale koyenera. Mabedi oyendayenda akhoza kukhala okwera mtengo, ndi zitsanzo zamtengo wapatali zokwera madola 100. Ngati mukusungira kachipangizo kameneka pakubwera kwatsopano, mudzafunikanso kugula mateti achiwiri, ana aang'ono, kuphatikizapo mtengo. Zonsezi zikuwonjezera.
Zoonadi, lingaliro la kukweza mwana wanu mu bedi lalikulu, lopanda kanthu lingamawoneke chowopsya, koma zopinga zomwe zimaphatikizapo zimagonjetsedwa mosavuta. Wokonzeka kusintha? Sungani mwana wanu wotetezeka ndi womasuka mu kabedi kawo kakang'ono, kakang'ono kwambiri ndi malangizo othandiza.
Kuteteza Falls
Ngati mukukonzekera kugwiritsira ntchito bedi wamkulu, muyenera kuyika pulani yolondera. Mafelemu ena ogwira ntchito amapita kale ndi alonda ochotsedwa. Mukhozanso kugula zinthu zowonongeka, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi slats kapena zingwe zopangidwa pansi pa mateti. Ankadandaula za kugwa? Yesetsani kuyika bokosilo ndi matiresi molunjika pansi.
Izi zidzakupangitsani kukhala kosavuta kwa mwana wanu wamng'ono kukwera ndi kutuluka pabedi ndi kuchepetsa mwayi wa kuvulala ngati atenga vuto losayembekezereka. Mukhoza kuwonjezera nthawi yowonjezera bedi pamene mwana wanu akukula pang'ono ndipo akuzoloŵeranso kugona kwawo.
Kusintha Kwambiri
Njira inanso yomwe mungasinthire mosavuta pa mwana wanu wamng'ono ndi kuwalola kuti agwiritse ntchito maliseche awo akale.
Achinyamata nthawi zambiri samasuka ndi kusintha, choncho ndibwino kusunga malo awo oyamwitsa komanso nthawi ya kugona monga momwe amachitira. Zingakhale zokopa kuti mupite kukagulira matumba atsopano, akuluakulu kuti akhale ndi mapepala, miyendo, ndi mapepala atsopano, koma mwana wanu akhoza kukhala omasuka kwambiri ndi pepala lokonzekera ndi bulangeti yawo yakale.
Perekani nthawi
Kusunthira kwakukulu ku msinkhu wa mwana wamkulu kungakhale kovuta, komabe ngati mwana wanu ali wotetezeka ndi wokonzeka, kukula kwa bedi sikuyenera kukhala kofunika. Ngati muwona kuti mwana wanu akulephera kusintha, mukhoza kumangogwira pansi pa bedi laling'ono pambuyo pake. (Mudzasowa bedi lamapeto pamapeto pake). Osatsimikiza kuti mwakonzekera bedi konse? Ndizobwino nanunso. Kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudzana ndi momwe mungasinthire mwana wanu woyamba kubedi, onani ndandanda yothandiza yopanda misozi.