Zikondwerero zimayenera kukhala nthawi yoti abwenzi ndi abwenzi apamtima azibwera palimodzi ndikuthokoza chifukwa chokhala m'dziko lino lalikulu. Ndiye bwanji mabanja ambiri akukumana ndi kupanikizika kwakukulu komanso kawirikawiri kupanga masewera omwe amachititsa kuti anthu azichita mantha kudzera mwa aliyense amene amasankha kuchitapo kanthu?
Zoyembekeza Zosayembekezereka
Kukhala ndi anthu onsewa sikuyenera kukhala zovuta, zochitika zovuta.
Chimodzi mwa mavuto akuluakulu ndi kuyembekezera zojambula zojambula zojambulajambula za Norman Rockwell ndi banja losangalala onse akukhala mozungulira tebulo, akudikira mwachidwi chakudya chokonzekera bwino chimene iwo akufuna kuti azichifuna. Izi sizili pafupi ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakumana nazo, choncho yesetsani kudzidula nokha ndi banja lanu.
Mmene Mungapangire Kuthokoza Drama Free
Nawa malangizowo a kukhala ndi Phwando loyamikira lamasewero:
- Siyani zoyembekezera zanu zakale. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuchepetsa miyezo yanu. Zomwe zikutanthawuza ndikuti chochitika chilichonse n'chosiyana, ngakhale mutakhala nawo anthu omwewo. Zochitika pamoyo zasintha, ndipo zinthu zachitika kwa aliyense. Landirani mfundo yakuti, ngakhale Kuthokoza ndikuthokoza ndizozoloŵera zowonjezera, izi ndizochitikira zatsopano.
- Khalani omvetsetsa nthawi yogawidwa. Ngati inu ndi banja lanu muli ndi mabanja m'matauni osiyanasiyana, mwina simungathe kukhala nawo limodzi chaka chilichonse. Bwerani ndi yankho, monga kusinthana komwe mumagwiritsa ntchito Thanksgiving chaka chilichonse. Chitani ichi popanda mkwiyo kapena kudziimba mlandu, kapena muthetsa nkhawa.
- Zindikirani nkhani za ubale. Ngati achibale anu akhala ndi mbiri yakalekale yosagwirizana, mwina palibe chimene mungachite kuti musinthe. Chinthu chimodzi chimene mungachite, koma ndikufunsani omwe akukhudzidwa kuti azichita nthawiyi, ngakhale zitakhala kuti sizikhala mbali imodzi ya tebulo.
- Landirani miyambo koma osati mpaka pamasautso. Ngati banja lanu liri ndi chiyamiko choyamika, palibe cholakwika ndi kuyesa kugwiritsira pa icho-kupatula ngati icho chimachititsa kuti azisokonezeka ndi sewero. Ganizirani mwambo uliwonse ndikutsatira kokha ngati ukugwira ntchitoyi. Kumbukirani kuti mwambo wofunikira kwambiri ukubweretsa banja ndi abwenzi palimodzi ndikuthokoza.
- Khalani okonzeka ndi oyamba kucheza . Ngakhale mutadziwa kuti azakhali a Edna angathe kuyambitsa zokambiranazo popanda kukonzekera, konzekerani mitu ingapo yomwe mungayambitse kukambirana kapena kuyambitsa zokambiranazo. Izi ndi zofunika makamaka ngati muli ndi zipembedzo zosiyanasiyana, maganizo otsutsana ndi ndale , kapena kusiyana pakati pa anthu.
- Thandizo lopereka. M'malo mokhala kumbuyo ndikuweruziratu wokhala nawo kapena wothandizira alendo, perekani thandizo lanu. Zimakhala zosavuta kuti zinthu zisakuyendereni bwino, koma mulibe ufulu wopereka chiweruzo pamene wina watenga ntchito yaikulu yokhala ndikuyang'anira kukumbukira kukumbukira.
- Mukhale ndi zakudya zosiyanasiyana. Ngati muli ndi nyama yambiri (kapena nyama yowonjezerapo), masamba ndi mchere kwa alendo anu kuti asankhepo, adzakhala osangalala komanso osasiya njala. Ena ogwira ntchito amapereka nkhuku ndi ham, ndipo amapempha alendo awo kuti abweretse mbale imodzi.
- Chotsani vuto la pet. Zinyama zambiri zimagwedezeka pamene pali anthu ambiri mnyumbamo kusiyana ndi momwe amachitira kale, ndipo amatha kusokonezeka ndi kuchitapo kanthu. Ngati muli ndi inkling'onoting'ono, izi zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri mu chipinda china kumene angamasuke. Ngati mukufuna kuti iwo azisangalala ndi phwando, abweretseni anthu onse atatha kudya, koma muziyang'anitsitsa kwambiri.
- Chitani zambiri pokonzekera mwamsanga. Osasiya kuphika konse mpaka mmawa wa phwando lalikulu. Pitani pa menu yanu ndipo muwone chomwe chingachitike m'masiku omwe akutsogolera kuti muthetse nkhawa za chinachake chimene sichikuyenda bwino.
- Dziwani mabatani otentha a alendo anu. Ngati muli ndi banja losagawanika, yikani lamulo lokhazikitsa kuti ndale sizingakambidwe pa chakudya . Ngati anthu akufuna kubweretsanso izo, ziri kwa inu kaya ayi. Izi zidzakhala zovuta kuti azikakamiza, koma kuchita zimenezi kungalepheretse banja lalikulu lomwe lidzatha nthawi yayitali.
- Perekani zosankha za zakudya. Ngati muli ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a shuga, ayenera kudya zakudya zopanda thanzi, ali ndi chifuwa chachikulu, kapena ali ndi zakudya zamasamba, onetsetsani kuti pali zakudya zomwe angadye. Musayese kukalowa mu casserole popanda kuuza oitanidwa chifukwa izi zimasonyeza kusalemekeza zosowa zawo kapena zosankha zawo.
- Konzekerani alendo owonjezera. Ngakhale ndizopanda pake kuti wina abweretse mlendo wosalandiridwa popanda kuzimitsa ndi wolandira, ino si nthawi yoti mupange zambiri. Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi chakudya chokwanira kwa munthu wina kapena awiri. Iyi ndi njira yabwino yosonyezera kuyamikira kwanu kwa abwenzi ndi abwenzi omwe mwamuitana ndikukulitsa chithandizo chochereza alendo.
- Dziwani mmene mungakonzekere zophika. Mukaphika gulu lalikulu, chinachake chiyenera kuchitika. Ngati masamba akuwotcha, chotsani iwo ndi zizindikiro zopsereza ndi kuwonjezera china. Mungathe kuponyera tomato, mtedza wodulidwa, kapena zipatso zowuma kuti muwonjezerepo zina. Ngati chitumbuwa cha mandimu sichikhala changwiro, nthawi zonse mukhoza kuwonjezera kukwapulidwa kuti muphimbe zolakwika. Nthawi zonse pali njira yothetsera vuto lililonse.
- Pezani nthawi yokha musanafike ndipo pambuyo pake. Gwiritsani ntchito kanthawi kochepa mukakonzekera chakudya ndipo alendo asanafike. Ngati mudapumula, mudzakhala osangalala kwambiri panthawi ya chakudya. Pamene chakudya chamadzulo chitatha ndipo chotsiriza cha mbale chichotsedwa, omasuka kulowa m'chipinda chako kwa nthawi yokha. Pambuyo pake, mwakhala mukugwira ntchito mwakhama pokhala mchere wachifundo kapena woyang'anira alendo, ndipo ndi nthawi yopumula ndikugwirizananso.
- Lolani nthawi yochulukirapo yoyenda. Musaiwale kuti misewu ikuluikulu imakhala yowonjezera nthawi ya maholide, choncho yambani msanga ndikudzipatsanso nthawi yowonjezera. Ngati n'kotheka, khalani kumeneko m'mawa kwambiri kotero kuti musamve kupanikizika kwa kuyesa nthawi.
Khazikani mtima pansi
Musaiwale kuti palibe chinthu ngati ungwiro pamene mukuchita nawo anthu-ngakhale omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi abwenzi ndi anzanu. Chifukwa chomwe inu muli palimodzi pa tsiku lapaderali ndikuyamika chifukwa cha madalitso anu onse, ndipo izi zikuphatikiza maubwenzi. Ngati chinachake chimachitika, ngati chakudya chikuwotcha kapena wina akunena zamwano , yesani kuseka. Zomwe zimakumbukira zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri ngati simungalole kuti sewero liwononge holide yanu.
Ngati palibe wina m'banja mwanu kapena gulu la anzanu omwe amapereka alendo ku Thanksgiving, musadandaule.
Pali malo odyera ambiri omwe amatumikira zakudya zokoma. Inu mukhoza kumakomana kumeneko, kusangalala ndi chakudya, ndikumapita ndi kumwetulira pa nkhope zanu.