Kodi mwangopangika kumene ndipo mukufuna kuti aliyense adziwe? Bwanji simukuponyera phwando lachitetezo kuti mutengeze banja lanu lomwe likudza ndikukondwerera ndi anthu omwe mumayandikira kwambiri? Sichiyenera kukhala okwera mtengo kapena chidziwitso chifukwa chochitika chachikulu chikugawana chisangalalo ndi chimwemwe chanu ndi anthu omwe ali ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu.
Ambiri mwa anthu omwe angokwatirane kumene amakonda kufotokozera nkhaniyo pokhala ndi phwando ndi achibale ndi abwenzi apamtima kukondwerera udindo wawo. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi phwando lachitetezo, ndibwino kuti muchite izi musanayambe kukonzekera ukwati , kapena mungadzipeze kuti mukungoyendayenda panyanja yokonzekera tsiku lanu lalikulu ndikuyamba kukumbukira.
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Kusamalira Party
Zithunzi Zithunzi za Jacobs / Photodisc / Getty Images MwachizoloƔezi, njira yabwino kwambiri kuti maanja akalengeze chibwenzi chawo anali pa phwando lomwe makolo a mkwatibwi amachitira. Komabe, ndi mafilimu ndi maulendo ena ofulumira, mau amachoka asanaitanidwe , kupondedwa, ndi kutumizidwa.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kukhala ndi phwando. Zimangotanthauza kuti cholinga cha phwando chasintha. Ndizo chikondwerero chochuluka kuposa kulengeza. Ngakhale kuti makolo a mkwatibwi angakhalebe nawo phwando, iwo salinso nawo mwambo. Maphwando okhudzidwa akhoza kuchitidwa ndi membala aliyense kapena bwenzi.
Ngati ndiwe amene mukuchita phwando, kambiranani ndi mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi mukukonzekera kuti atsimikizire kuti zokhumba zawo zikugwirizanitsidwa. Musamawatsutse zozizwitsa zochititsa manyazi pazochitikazo.
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Amene Muyenera Kuitanira
JGI / Jamie Grill / Getty Images Mabanja apamtima, banja lapamtima, ndipo mabwenzi apamtima apamtima ayenera kulandira maitanidwe . Ino si nthawi yoitanira anzanu omwe mumagwira nawo ntchito kuntchito.
Aliyense amene mukufuna kukalowa naye pa phwando ayenera kulandira phwando ku phwando lachitetezo pokhapokha ngati ali kutali. Mwina mungafune kuwadziwitsa za izo, ngati ali ndi mwayi wopita ulendo wina. Izi zikuphatikizapo mtsikana wa ulemu , mwamuna wabwino, okwatiwa, ndi anthu ogona.
Anthu omwe akuitanidwa ku phwando lachitetezo ayenera kukhala pa mndandanda wa alendo. Kuchita mosiyana kungapweteke maganizo a omwe sali okondwerera tsiku lofunika kwambiri la moyo wa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi.
Nthawi zambiri, ndi bwino kukhala ndi phwando limodzi ndi onse omwe akupezekapo, koma pangakhale vuto ngati mabanja ndi abwenzi a mkwati ndi abwenzi akuchokera kumadera osiyanasiyana. Zikatero, ndibwino kukhala ndi zochitika ziwiri zosiyana. Ngati muli ndi phwando limodzi lokhazikika, yesetsani kukhala ndi alendo omwe akuyimira mkwati ndi mkwatibwi.
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Momwe Mungayitanire
Holly A. Troschuk / Getty Images Maitanidwe apamwamba ndi omwe amabwera mu imelo nthawi zonse ndi sitampu ndi adiresi ya msewu. Komabe, kuti musonkhane msanga, mungagwiritse ntchito imelo. Pewani kugwiritsira ntchito mafilimu kuti muitane alendo omwe mukuchita nawo phwando chifukwa mungapweteke malingaliro a ena omwe sanaitanidwe, ndipo izi zingayambitse mavuto .
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Zokakamiza Mphatso
VisualField / Getty Images Mphatso sizinaperekedwe pa phwando lochitirana phwando, ndipo wolandiridwa, wokwatira, mkwatibwi, ndi mkwati amafunika kuti adziwe momveka kuitanidwe. Anthu angasankhe kubweretsa mphatso . M'malo mowawonetsa pa tebulo lamapemphero, tithokozani mlendo ndikuyika mphatsoyo kuti isapenye.
Ngati mwaitanidwa ku phwando lachitetezo, ndipo palibe chomwe chinanenedwa payitanidwe, mungafunike kutenga khadi lachikopa mu envelopu kotero kuti simudzakhala munthu yekha wopanda kanthu kwa awiriwa. Khalani anzeru kwambiri popereka mphatso kwa banja. Iyi si nthawi yoitana munthu aliyense payekha.
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Zochita za Phungu ndi Zochitika
Portra Images / Getty Images Zochitika zokha kapena zochitika zomwe ziyenera kukonzedweratu pa phwando lochita nawo chidziwitso ndi kulengeza. Nthawi zina, izi ndi pamene makolo a mkwati ndi mkwati akomana. Izi ziyenera kuchitika mwamsanga pamene onse awiri abwera kuphwando, popanda kulowetsedwa kwa alendo ena.
Mowa ukhoza kutumikiridwa ngati mabanja a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi akuvomerezeka. Komabe, ngati banja liri ndi chifukwa cha zifukwa zachipembedzo kapena matenda omwe angapangitse kumwa mowa, sikuyenera kukhala mowa.
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Kukambirana
Rob Melnychuk / Getty Images Pitirizani kukambirana ndikuyang'ana pa phwando losangalatsa. Mukamabweretsa anthu awiri ndikuphatikiza mabanja, mungakumane ndi kusiyana komwe kukambirana kungayambitse mkangano woopsa. Ino si nthawi yoti tikambirane za ndale kapena kusiyana kwakukulu kwachipembedzo.
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Pewani Kuchita Chiyanjano Chochita Zophatikiza Zopanga Chikondwerero
Amayi akulangiza mwana wake wamkulu. David Burch / Getty Images Pali zochitika zambiri zomwe zimachitika pamaphwando opangira zomwe mungapewe ngati mukuchita nawo pasadakhale. Nazi njira zingapo zowonetsetsera zochitika zabwino:
- Sungani phwando laling'ono. Maphwando okondana ayenera kusonkhana mwachikondi kwa omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Anthu ambiri pazochitika popanda zochitika zomwe zingakonzedwe zingakhale zoopsa kuti zichitike.
- Chitani zokambirana. Ngati wina aliyense angatsutse mgwirizanowu, ayambitseni nkhaniyi. Munthuyo sayenera kuvomereza ndi mtima wonse chigamulo cha mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, koma ayenera kulonjeza kuti asapange malo. Ichi ndi chikondwerero ndipo chiyenera kukhala nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri popanda awiriwo atakhala ndi mantha pokhudzana ndi zovuta.
- Tsezani mabanja pambali. Ngati makolo a mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi sadakumanepo mpaka pano, musachite mawu otsogolera pamaso pa omvera. Chikhalidwe chachinsinsi chimapangitsa iwo kukhala omangirira popanda kusokoneza ndi ndemanga za ena.
- Musapititse patsogolo. Sungani zokongoletsera, zakudya, ndi zosangalatsa za ukwati ndi phwando. Cholinga cha phwando lachitetezo ndi nthawi yofotokozera mabanja, kulengeza mwachidwi zomwe mukuchita, ndikupereka maanja kwa osangalala.
- Kusiya mowa. Ngati mukufuna kupereka mowa kwa alendo anu, ndi bwino kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa ndalama pa munthu aliyense. Imodzi mwa njira zomwe mungathe kuchita izi ndi kupereka galasi limodzi la vinyo , champagne, kapena chakumwa chakumwa kwa munthu aliyense.