Malingaliro Ochepetsa Kukonzekera ndi Kuthetsa Zojambula
Ngati mukukumana ndi matenda a chisa chopanda kanthu kapena muli ndi wachibale wachikulire yemwe akusamuka kuchoka kunyumba kupita kuchipatala, muyenera kuyang'ana kuchepetsa zomwe zili mkati mwathu kuti mudziwe chomwe chikufunika ndi chomwe chidzagwirizane nyumba yatsopano.
Kaya mukuchita izi nokha kapena kwa wina, kusokoneza sikuvuta. Timakonda "kuchepa" nthawi iliyonse yomwe timayenda, ndipo nthawi zonse ndimawopa.
Sizingakhale zosavuta kusankha ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri kupereka zinthu zomwe mwakhala nazo kwa nthawi yaitali.
Kotero, mumayamba kuti?
Dziwani Kumene Inu Mutenga Zinthu Zanu Zowonjezera
Pambuyo pa imfa ya amayi athu, ine ndi mchemwali wanga tinakhala miyezi ingapo tikuyendetsa zinthu zake, ndikuyesa kupeza komwe tingatenge chirichonse ndi amene angapeze chiyani. Zinali zovuta. Sitinkafuna kugawana ndi chirichonse monga zinthu za amayi athu zinali zonse zomwe tasiya.
Musanasankhe ngakhale zomwe mukuyenera kusiya, sankhani komwe angapite; achibale, abwenzi, zopereka zachifundo, kapena malonda . Lembani mndandanda, ndiye pamene mukudutsa m'nyumba mukuyamba kupanga mulu.
Yesani Kunyumba Yatsopano
Pezani ndondomeko kapena dongosolo la nyumba yanu yatsopano; funsani kukula kwa chipinda chilichonse, kenako sankhani zinyumba zambiri zomwe zingasunthe . Kudziwa zomwe zidzakwaniritsidwe ndi zomwe sizidzapangitsa chisankho kukhala chosavuta.
Pitani Kupyolera Muzipinda Zonse ndikufunsa Mafunso
Choyamba, yambani ndi malo a nyumba yanu kuti musagwiritse ntchito zambiri, monga chipinda chapamwamba, chipinda chapansi, chipinda chochapa zovala kapena chipinda chopumira.
Ndisavuta kuchotsa zinthu zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kusungirako.
Pakani pamene mukupita . Sonkhanitsani katundu wonyamula katundu ndipo pang'onopang'ono muziyendetsa chipinda chilichonse. Pezani zinthu kunja mwamsanga mwamsanga. Ndi zophweka kusintha maganizo anu kapena kuyamba kukoka zinthu kuchokera mu muluwo.
Pamene mukudutsa chipinda chilichonse, dzifunseni mafunso ena pa chinthu chilichonse:
- Kodi ndi liti pamene ndinagwiritsa ntchito izi?
- Ngati ndikugwiritsa ntchito, ndi kangati ndipo chifukwa chiyani? Kodi ndi cholinga chotani?
- Kodi ndili ndi chinthu china chomwe chingakhale ndi cholinga chomwecho?
- Kodi chinthu ichi ndimachikonda? Kodi ali ndi malingaliro abwino omwe sungasinthidwe?
- Kodi ndingapeze popanda izo? Kodi ndiyenera kutenga malowa ngati ndasankha kuchotsa?
- Kodi ili bwino? Kodi idzatha kwa nthawi yaitali?
- Kodi zikufunika kukonza, ndipo ngati zili choncho, zingakhale zotani ndipo ndizofunika mtengo?
- Kodi ndikumudziwa wina yemwe angapindule kwambiri ndi ntchito yake?
- Kodi izo zimakhala ndi cholinga mu moyo watsopano uno umene ndikusunthira?
Khalani okoma kwa Inu nokha kapena kwa Achibale omwe akuyenda
Kumbukirani, kusuntha si kophweka; Icho chimapanga kusintha kwakukulu komwe kumatopetsa komanso nthawi zambiri, kumapweteka kwambiri . Onjezerani kuti mfundo yakuti inu kapena wokondedwa wanu mukucheperachepera , kuchoka ku banja lokonda kwambiri kupita kumudzi kapena pantchito. Izi ndizo kusintha kwakukulu komwe kumakhudza ngakhale kukhumudwa kwakukulu. Kotero, kumbukirani malingaliro awa pamene mukuyamba gawo ili latsopano mu moyo wanu:
- Dzichepetseni nokha kapena wachibale amene akusuntha.
- Dzikumbutseni kuti cholinga chanu sikuti muchotse chilichonse chomwe mumachikonda, koma kuti mukhale ndi moyo wosalira zambiri.
- Khala woleza mtima ndi wokoma mtima.
- Khalani womvetsetsa ngati inu kapena wokondedwa wanu mukukhumudwa.
- Dzipatseni nokha nthawi kuti mugwire ntchito. Ngati watopa, pumula. Pumulani. Pitani paulendo. Lankhulani ndi wina.
- Lolani nokha kumva chisoni ndi imfa.
- Ngati muli ndi nthawi yovuta, funsani thandizo.
- Ngati simungathe kusankha pa chinthu, kumbukirani kuti ikhoza kusungidwa mpaka mutakonzeka.
- Lolani nokha kapena wachibale wanu kuti akumbukire. Zonsezi zili ndi malingaliro, kotero khalani ndi nthawi yosinkhasinkha. Ndi sitepe yofunika kuti mulole kupita.
Mutatha kukweza nyumba yanu , yesetsani kusangalala ndi gawo ili latsopano. Itanani mnzanu. Pita kukadya ndikukhala wabwino kwa iwe wekha. Inu mukuyenerera izo.