Tanthauzo la Etiquette

Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo za tanthauzo lenileni la ulemu ? Kodi nthawi yomweyo mumaganizira za makhalidwe omwe mungaphunzire ku sukulu yosangalatsa pamene wina akutchula mawuwo?

Pamene anthu ambiri amaganizira za khalidwe labwino, chinthu choyamba chimene chimalowa m'maganizo mwawo ndikudziwa kuti nkhumba zimagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanji kapena kugwirana chanza ndi wina. Ngakhale kuti zinthuzo ndizofunikira kuzidziwa, sizikufika pa maziko a chidziwitso chenicheni.

Tanthauzo Lenikulu

Mawu akuti "ulemu" amachokera ku mawu achi French akuti "estique," kutanthawuza kuti amangirire kapena kumamatira. Dzina lakuti "etiquette" limafotokoza zofunikira za makhalidwe malinga ndi misonkhano ya anthu. Izi zikuphatikizapo khalidwe labwino lomwe limakhazikitsidwa ndi anthu ammudzi osiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo miyambo, makhoti, zochitika zenizeni ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku.

Tsatanetsatane waifupi pa Merriam-Webster.com ndi "malamulo omwe amasonyeza njira yoyenera ndi yaulemu yakuchita." Tsatanetsatane wathunthu ndi "khalidwe kapena ndondomeko yomwe imafunika kubereka bwino kapena kulamulidwa ndi ulamuliro kuti iwonedwe mu moyo waumphawi kapena umoyo ."

Essence of Etiquette

Akatswiri ambiri amavomereza amavomereza kuti khalidwe loyenera limayamba polemekeza ena, kukhala okhulupilika ndi odalirika, kuika ena kukhala omasuka , ndi kusonyeza kukoma mtima ndi ulemu kwa ena. Pambuyo pazimenezi, muyenera kuika maganizo pazinthu zina.

"Palibe chinthu chosafunika kwenikweni kuposa momwe umachitira." Etiqette ndi sayansi ya moyo, imaphatikizapo chirichonse, ndi chikhalidwe. Emily Post

Malangizo Kupyolera M'mibadwo

Chimene chimakhumudwitsa anthu ambiri omwe anakulira m'mabanja omwe amapanga ulemu ndi makhalidwe abwino kwa ana awo ndikuti luso lofunikirali silikuperekedwa kwa mbadwo wotsatira m'mabanja ambiri. Ana ambiri sanaphunzitsidwe kuti ayenera kudziwa ena, kulola malo awo , kutsatira lamulo lachikhalidwe, kumvera Malamulo 10, ndi kulemekeza akulu awo .

Code of Conduct ndi Khalidwe

Khalidwe labwino limaphatikizapo kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino. Mosiyana ndi zomwe anthu ena amanena, zochita zathu zonse zimakhudza ena. Zonse zomwe muyenera kuchita ndiwowona masewero a TV, ndipo mukhoza kuwona. Ngati mukuyenera kukhala ndi anthu otchuka, samverani anthu omwe ali achifundo komanso achifundo. Makolo ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa zomwe ana awo amawona, ndipo pamene munthu wotchuka amasonyeza makhalidwe oipa, agwiritseni ntchito ngati mwayi wophunzitsa zomwe munthuyo ayenera kuchita.

Kuphunzitsa Makhalidwe ndi Makhalidwe kwa Ana

Kodi wina angasonyeze bwanji zomwe sakudziwa? Ana amafunika kuphunzitsidwa makhalidwe abwino, kuyamika akamatsatira malamulo, ndi kuwongolera pamene sakuchita. Ndi udindo wa kholo, koma ena akuluakulu mu miyoyo ya ana ayenera kuthandizana ndi kuthandizira ngati n'kotheka.

Nawa malangizowo pa kuphunzitsa ana ulemu woyenera:

• Tsatirani malangizo oyenerera ngati mukuphunzitsa ana.
• Dziwani mmene mungaphunzitsire ana ulemu wabwino .
• Phunzitsani ana zoyenera ma tebulo.
• Pangani maphunziro abwino komanso osangalatsa .
• Sakanizani makhalidwe amanyenga pepala kuti athandize ana kukumbukira.

Makhalidwe Achikulire

Ana sali okhawo omwe amafunikira maphunziro a makhalidwe. Zonse zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikuyang'ana pozungulira pamene mukupezeka pagulu kuti muwone akulu omwe ayenera kudziwa bwino kuposa momwe amachitira.

Mwayi wake, iwo anaphunzitsidwa ngati ana, koma ngati iwo sanagwiritse ntchito, iwo aiwala zoyambirira za makhalidwe abwino.

Nazi mfundo zina zotsitsimutsa zomwe mukudziwa kapena zoyenera kuzidziwa pazochita zabwino:

• Malangizo Ofulumira pa Zamakhalidwe Zamasiku Onse
• Office Etiquette Nsonga
• Malangizo Aumwini ndi Aphunzitsi Zokuthandizani

Tsatirani malangizo awa polankhulana ndi ena:

• Chidziwitso cha Kukambirana
• Zoyambira Kukambirana
• Makhalidwe Olankhulana ndi Email
• Social Media Etiquette

Zinthu Zoganizira

Malangizo amaphatikizapo makhalidwe osiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo kukoma mtima, kulingalira, kukongola, kalembedwe, ndi kukongoletsa. Pano pali malangizo othandizira kuti akuthandizeni ndi masewera achikhalidwe:

• Dzifunseni nokha ngati khalidweli ndi labwino kapena lachifundo musanachitepo kanthu.
• Onetsetsani kuti mukuika ena patsogolo popanda kudzigwetsa pansi.
• Khalani ndi khalidwe labwino kuti likhale lachibadwa komanso kuchokera pansi pamtima.

• Popeza kuti khalidwe labwino limasiyanasiyana kuchokera kumayiko ena kupita ku zina ndipo limasintha nthawi ndi nthawi , pitirizani kuphunzira malamulo atsopano ndi kuwatsata.

Yosinthidwa ndi Debby Mayne