Ngati munakhalapo ndi mnzanu amene amadziwa kuti ali ndi matenda otha kufa komanso kuti imfa ikubwera posachedwa, mukudziwa momwe zingakhalire zovuta kudziwa zomwe mungachite kapena kunena . Chinthu chofunika kwambiri kukumbukira ndi chakuti munthuyo adakali moyo, choncho nthawi zonse ukhale wolemekezeka monga momwe mnzanuyo sakanakuuzani za matendawa. Yesetsani kuganizira apa ndi pano osati imfa yomwe ikuyandikira.
Khalani ndi Maganizo Oyenera
Anthu ena amapewa aliyense amene ali ndi matenda othawa chifukwa safuna kukhala ovutika maganizo kapena kuganiza kuti akhoza kugwira chirichonse chomwe chiri.
Mwayi ndi, kupatula ngati munthu wozunzika wapatulidwa, sakululukanso.
Mmene Mungachitire
Nazi malingaliro a momwe mungachitire ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda othetsera:
- Perekani moni wachifundo. Sikuti nthawi zonse zimakhala zokhudza matendawa, koma mungafunse kuti, "Momwemo lero?" Nenani momwemo momwe mungakhalire kwa munthu wathanzi, osati ndi mawu okhumudwitsa.
- Phatikizani munthuyo, monga momwe mungakhalire kale. Ngati uyu ndi munthu amene mudamuitanira ku maphwando a chakudya kapena masewera a baseball , pitirizani kuchita zimenezo. Iye akadali moyo, kotero iye akufuna kuti apitirize kuchita zomwe iye wakhala akusangalala nazo nthawizonse. Adzakuuzani ngati sangathe kupita.
- Musaganizire za imfa. Chitani zabwino kwambiri kuti muwone munthuyo ali moyo komanso osati munthu amene amamwalira. Simuyenera kubweretsa zomwe zidzachitike atachoka. Ngati akufuna kuti akambirane, chabwino, koma muloleni iye ayambe kukambirana .
- Mvetserani. Pamene mnzanu akukuuzani kuti ali ndi matenda othetsera matenda, mvetserani ndipo mukhale otonthoza momwe mungathere popanda kupereka uphungu. Mwayi wake, iye wakhala akupita kwa dokotala ndipo akupeza chithandizo chamtundu wina. Pamene akukuuzani nkhani zatsopano kuchokera kwa adokotala ake, musaganize kuti nthawi zonse mumayankha. Nthawi zina amatha kungoyankhula.
- Tengani cues kuchokera kwa munthuyo. Ngati mukumvetsera, mwinamwake mungakwaniritse zosowa zake. Ngati akufuna kuti akambirane za vuto lake, yesetsani kukambirana. Ngati akufuna kusunga maganizo ake payekha, mpatseni malo.
- Thandizo lopereka. Lolani bwenzi lanu kudziwa kuti mukufuna kuthandiza, koma musatsegule kwambiri ndi thandizo lanu. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, musangonena kuti, "Ndiuzeni ngati pali chilichonse chimene ndingathe kuchita." M'malo mwake, perekani kuti mumutengetse kuchipatala chake kapena kwa mwana ngati ali ndi ana ang'onoang'ono.
- Musakhale okwiya nthawi zonse. Ngakhale kuti mwina akufa, sakufuna kuti nthawi zonse mukhale ndi nkhope yachisoni pamene akukuonani. Kumwetulira kwachikondi kungathandize kwambiri kuti masiku ake otsiriza akhale osangalatsa kwambiri.
- Musati muweruze. Pamene wina ali ndi matenda otha kufa, palibe chimene munganene kuti musinthe zinthu, kotero musati muweruze.
- Landirani kukhumudwa ndi mkwiyo. Munthu akauzidwa kuti ali ndi miyezi yowerengeka yokhala ndi moyo, akhoza kukhumudwa kapena kukwiya. Zindikirani kuti izi ndizochitika mwachibadwa. Musamutsatire mkwiyo wake, ngakhale atakuvutitsani. Khalani chete koma omvera. Ngati mkwiyo wake umasanduka wachiwawa kapena ukupitirizabe kuchita zinthu zoipa, mukhoza kuchotsa pamaso pake kufikira atachepa. Mwayi wake, iye amamva chisoni kenako ndikupepesa.
- Musanene chinachake chopusa . Ngati simunayambe mwakhala ndi matenda otsiriza-ndipo mwayi mulibe-musamuuze kuti mukudziwa momwe akumvera. Inu simukutero.