Sizabwino kukhala wachifundo kwa wina aliyense, koma ndizoopsa kwambiri kuona anthu achikulire akuponyedwa pambali. Pambuyo pake, anthu awa ali ndi zochitika za moyo zomwe tiyenera kumvetsera ndikuphunzira kuchokera. Kumbukirani kuti kukhala wachifundo kwa aliyense , mosasamala za msinkhu wawo, kumasonyeza khalidwe lanu lenileni. Kunyalanyaza anthu amene akhalako kwa nthawi yayitali kuposa ife kumasonyeza kusalabadira kwathu.
Pa nthawi yonse ya ubwana ndi zaka zaunyamata , amamva mawu akuti, "Lemekeza akulu anu," mobwerezabwereza, mpaka atayamba kukhala ndi ubongo.
Mungaganize kuti aliyense amamva zomwezo kuchokera kwa makolo ake ndi agogo ake, koma mwachionekere ayi.
Lembani modzidzimutsa udindo wa munthu wachikulire. Kodi mungamve bwanji ngati anthu sakukulemekezani chifukwa chakuti muli ndi imvi, makwinya, ndi pang'onopang'ono? Gwiritsani ntchito Lamulo la Chikhalidwe pamene muli ndi akulu anu.
Anthu omwe akhala ndi moyo zaka zambiri ali ndi malingaliro osiyana kuchokera kwa munthu amene akuwona zinthu nthawi yoyamba. Ndi zochitika izi zimabwera maphunziro omwe angaperekedwe. Kodi sizomveka kulemekeza munthu amene akukuphunzitsani chinthu chamtengo wapatali? Nzeru ya anthu achikulire omwe mumadziŵa ikhoza kupindulitsa moyo wanu. Ngakhale ngati simukugwirizana ndi zomwe akunena, mwinamwake mvetserani, ndipo mukhoza kuchokapo ndi nugget yofunikira imene mungagwiritse ntchito mtsogolo.
Nazi njira zina zomwe mungasonyezere kulemekeza kwa anthu akuluakulu kuposa inu:
Awalankhule Mwachindunji
Gwiritsani ntchito dzina limene akufuna kutchedwa.
Pokhapokha atakuuzani mosiyana, awateni Bambo kapena Ms., akutsatiridwa ndi dzina lawo lomaliza. Ngati akufuna kuti uwaitane ndi dzina lawo loyamba, lemekezani pempho lawo.
Sambani Manja
Ngati mukukumana ndi munthuyu nthawi yoyamba kapena ngati simunamuone kanthawi, gwiranani chanza . Ichi ndi chophweka koma chomveka bwino chomwe chimamuchititsa munthuyo kudziwa kuti ali ndi makhalidwe , ndipo simukuwopa kuzigwiritsa ntchito.
Lankhulani Mwachionekere Ndi Popanda Slang
Mabwenzi anu amatha kumvetsa mazamu omwe amadzazidwa ndi slang posachedwapa, koma musayembekezere wina wamkulu kuposa inu kupeza zomwe mukuyesera kunena. Simukuyenera kulira, koma sungani mawu anu momveka bwino, pewani kugwiritsira ntchito slang, ndipo khalani okonzeka kuyankhula mokweza ngati zikuwoneka kuti munthuyo sangakumvereni.
Pangani Osonkhana ndi Diso ndi Kusekerera
Mukamayandikira kapena kuwapatsa moni akulu anu, nthawi zonse muzilankhulana maso . Izi zikusonyeza kuti mumavomereza kukhalapo kwawo. Kumwetulira kwaufulu kumapangitsa kuti munthuyu asamveke bwino tsiku lina.
Thandizo Lopereka
Munthu wachikulire akafika pakhomo la nyumba, gwirani chitseko ndikumulola kuti apite choyamba. Thandizani kuti mufikire chinachake pa sitolo yapamwamba kapena yochepa mu sitolo kapena kunyumba. Dziwani za kulemala komwe munthuyo angakhale nayo ndikuthandiza malinga ndi zomwe akufunikira. Mtundu uliwonse kapena zopatsa zomwe mumachita kuti moyo wawo ukhale wosavuta udzayamikiridwa.
Muzigwiritsa Ntchito Nthaŵi Yanu Mosamala
Anthu ambiri omwe ali okalamba kuposa inu adzalandira chidwi chanu. Sangalalani zokambirana za mutu womwe mumagwirizana nawo. Khalani pansi ndi agogo aakazi kapena munthu wina wachikulire ndipo musonyeze kuti mumasamala. Pezani masewera a mpira kapena penyani kanema pamodzi.
Khalani omasuka kufunsa mafunso pazochitikira zawo, ndiyeno mvetserani. Ngati chinachake chikukhumudwitsa, ndizotheka, iye angakuuzeni.
Sonyezani Chikondi Chanu
Ngati wachikulire ndi agogo, agogo, amalume, kapena akugwirizana ndi inu mwanjira iliyonse, asonyezeni kuti mumamukonda. Perekani chikumbumtima ndi kunena chinachake chakukondani. Funsani mafunso okhudza makolo anu ndipo mupereke kuyika chithunzi cha album kapena scrapbook ndi mementos. Mudzadabwa kuona momwe chidziwitso chidzakhalira, ndipo mwinamwake mudzaphunzira zina zatsopano zokhudza banja lanu. Phunzitsani ana anu momwe angakhalire pakati pa akulu awo.
Sonyezani Makhalidwe Abwino
Ambiri mwa akulu anu adaphunzitsidwa ulemu woyenera pamene anali ana, ndipo akuyeneranso kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino . Nthawi zonse nenani, "Chonde," ndi "Zikomo." Ayenera kudziwa kuti mibadwo yotsatirayi ndi boma lokwanira kuti lipitirize.