Anthu ambiri ali ndi zifukwa zokhudzana ndi khalidwe la ana , makamaka pankhani ya ana a anthu ena. Monga makolo, timachita bwino ndi zomwe tikudziwa, komabe sizingakhale zovuta kuphunzitsa makhalidwe abwino kwa ana omwe cholinga chawo chokha m'moyo chimakuwonetsani khalidwe lanu loipa .
Makolo amadziwa kuti mosasamala kanthu za maphunziro omwe timapereka ndi kubwereza mobwerezabwereza, ana athu amapitirirabe, ndipo tikuyenera kuwathandiza ngati tikufuna kuti akule akhale nzika zaulemu komanso olemekezeka.
Sizinali zophweka. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndibwino kudziwa kuti tonse tiri mu boti lomwelo, ndipo zimathandiza kukhala ndi chisangalalo.
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zabwino kwambiri zokhudza kuwerenga malemba kuchokera kwa anthu odziwika bwino ndikuti mumawona kuti aliyense, mosasamala kuti ndinu ndani, ali ndi zochitika zomwezo. Barbara Bush avomereza kuti kulera ana si kophweka, mumadziwa kuti muli bwino.
Tonse Tili Pamodzi Pamodzi
Pano pali ndemanga zokhudzana ndi makhalidwe a ana amene angapangitse kuti pakhale nthawi yophweka.
"Ana ovuta kwambiri ntchito omwe akukumana nawo masiku ano ndi kuphunzira makhalidwe abwino osawona chilichonse." ~ Fred Astaire
"Phunzitsani chikondi, mowolowa manja, khalidwe labwino, ndipo zina mwa izo zidzatuluka m'kalasi kupita kunyumba, ndipo ndani akudziwa, anawo aziphunzitsa makolo." ~ Roger Moore
"Muyenera kukonda ana anu mopanda dyera, koma ndi njira yokhayo." ~ Barbara Bush
"Munthu ndi munthu, ziribe kanthu kuti ndizing'ono bwanji." ~ Dr.
Yambani
"Chikhalidwe cha mwana wamba ndikuti satero nthawi zambiri." ~ Author Unknown
Makhalidwe abwino: Phokoso limene simumachita mukamadya msuzi. " ~ Bennett Cerf
"Palibe chomwe chimawakonda ana kuposa chilungamo, ndipo amafunika kuphunzitsidwa m'mayamayi kuti" azisewera mwachilungamo "pamaseĊµero, kuti azilemekezana ndi wina ndi mnzake, kuti adzipereke ulemu kwa ena, komanso kuti asamadzipire okha mangawa." ~ Emily Post
"Mukhoza kuphunzira zinthu zambiri kuchokera kwa ana. Muli ndi chipiriro chotani, mwachitsanzo." ~ Franklin P. Jones
"Mtsikana wamng'ono ndi shuga ndi zonunkhira ndi zonse zabwino - makamaka pamene akugona." ~ Author Unknown
Mukuganiza Kutsatsa Quotes
Mavesi ena sangakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vuto linalake, koma zimakupangitsani kuganiza. Ndipo kulingalira nthawizonse ndi chinthu chabwino, chabwino?
"Ku America kuli magulu awiri oyendayenda - kalasi yoyamba, ndipo ali ndi ana." ~ Robert Benchley
Timayesetsa kuphunzitsa ana athu zonse za moyo, ana athu amatiphunzitsa zomwe moyo uli nazo. " ~ Angela Schwindt
"Ana amafunikira chikondi, makamaka ngati sakuyenera." ~ Harold Hulbert
"Nthawi zambiri mwana amafunika kulankhula bwino ngati akumvetsera bwino." ~ Robert Brault
Gwiritsani Ntchito Zosangalatsa
Ngakhale ana abwino kwambiri amakhala ndi nthawi yomwe makolo awo amadabwa ngati pali chiyembekezo chilichonse. Manyazi amachititsa kuti kulera ana kukhale kovuta pa nthawi imeneyi.
" Kukhala ndi zaka ziwiri kuli ngati kukhala ndi blender kuti mulibe pamwamba." ~ Jerry Seinfeld
" Musamabwereke galimoto yanu kwa aliyense amene mwabereka." ~ Erma Bombeck
"Ngati kuyambira muli wakhanda mumawachitira ana ngati milungu omwe amafunikira kukhala akuluakulu a ziwanda." ~ PD James
Ana amafunikira zitsanzo kuposa momwe amafunikira otsutsa.
~ Joseph Joubert
Chilango ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri pophunzitsa khalidwe labwino ndi khalidwe loyenera mwa ana athu. Komabe, ziribe kanthu zomwe timanena, iwo amayang'ana ndikutsata kutsogolera kwanu pa zomwe mumachita osati zomwe mumanena.
"Brat ndi mwana yemwe waphunzira kupeza zomwe akufuna kwa makolo ake ndi mayesero ndi mantha." ~ Unknown
Mini Me
Anthu ena amaona kuti ana ndi "akuluakulu pophunzitsa." Komabe, nthawi zina mumadabwa ngati angakhale alendo ochokera kudziko lina.
"Mwachibadwa ana amafanana ndi makolo awo ngakhale atayesetsa kuwaphunzitsa makhalidwe abwino." ~ Unknown
"Mukuyesera zovuta zanu kuti mulere ana anu mwachangu , kukhulupilika ndi khalidwe labwino, komabe iwo amatha kukhala ngati inu." ~ Unknown
"Ana akhoza kukhala mogwirizana ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira." ~ Lady Bird Johnson
Malangizo Okulera Ana Anu Kuti Akhale Akhalidwe Wabwino
Ngakhale ndizosangalatsa kuti muwerenge ndemanga za kulera ana, simudzakhala ndi mayankho onse ku mafunso anu okhudza kupanga ana anu kutsatira miyezo ya anthu ndikuwaphunzitsa makhalidwe abwino. Muyenera kukhala olimbikitsa kuwaphunzitsa momwe angakhalire masewera abwino, ngakhale atatayika , momwe angasonyezere kulemekeza okalamba , momwe angayankhulire ndi anzawo osewera nawo, ndi momwe angakhalire pa chakudya chamadzulo.