Anthu ambiri amamvetsa kufunika kwa khalidwe labwino , ndipo izi zikuwonetsedwa m'mawu ena omwe atchulidwa pano. Kumbukirani kuti zimasiyanasiyana kuchokera ku chikhalidwe chimodzi kupita ku china. Tengani nthawi kuti mudziwe zoyenera kulikonse komwe muli.
Makhalidwe Abwino Angakuthandizeni
Kaya muli ndi abambo kapena kunja ndi pafupi ndi abwenzi, khalidwe loyenera lidzakusungani inu mu zabwino zokhala ndi inu. Kukhala wonyansa kumangokuchititsani kuti muwoneke kuti ndinu wamisala komanso wodzikonda.
" Mabwenzi ndi makhalidwe abwino adzakunyamulira komwe ndalama sizipita."
~ Margaret Walker
" Makhalidwe abwino adzatsegula zitseko zomwe maphunziro abwino sangathe."
~ Clarence Thomas
"Palibe chingakhale chitetezo ngati ulemu waukulu."
~ EV Lucas
"Aliyense yemwe ali, ndipo paliponse pomwe alipo, nthawi zonse zimakhala zolakwika ngati wina ali wamwano ."
Maurice Baring
Makhalidwe a Zamaphunziro ndi Zakudya Zodyera
Ngati mukufuna kugwira ntchito kuti musinthe malingaliro anu, yambani ndi ndondomeko ya tebulo . Anthu ena amangophunzira kuti agwiritse ntchito zipangizo zoyenera , pamene ena alibe chitsimikizo choti achite ndi nsalu zawo .
"Dziko linali oyster wanga koma ndinkagwiritsa ntchito foloko yolakwika."
~ Oscar Wilde
"Makhalidwe ndikumvetsetsa bwino mmene akumvera ena. Ngati muli ndi chidziwitso chimenechi, muli ndi khalidwe labwino, mosasamala kanthu za foloko yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito. "
~ Emily Post
"Kudya mphesa ndi mpeni ndi mphanda si zomwe munthu anganene kuti woyengedwa.
~ Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
Makhalidwe Oipa ndi Anthu Opusa
Anthu ena adzakhala ndi makhalidwe oipa, ziribe kanthu. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuchitapo kanthu ndi makhalidwe oipa ndi makhalidwe oipa. Pamene wina akuchita zachiwerewere , pewani kudzichepetsa nokha.
"Mukhoza kukhala ndi moyo ndi makhalidwe oipa, koma ndizosavuta ndi makhalidwe abwino."
~ Lillian Gish
"Nthaŵi zina khalidwe labwino limatanthauza kumangotsatira makhalidwe oipa a anthu ena."
~ H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
"Kunyada ndi munthu wofooka kutsanzira mphamvu."
~ Eric Hoffer
"'Kuwona mtima' m'moyo wamtunduwu nthawi zambiri kumagwiritsidwa ntchito monga chivundikiro cha kunyenga. Koma pali kusiyana pakati pa kukhala omveka pa zomwe mukuzinenazo ndipo anthu akulankhula malingaliro awo onyoza pansi pa dzina la kukhulupirika."
~ Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
Makhalidwe Abwino, Ana Ochepetsedwa ndi Achinyamata
Anthu sali obadwa omwe akudziwa momwe angakhalire ndi moyo, choncho amayenera kuphunzitsidwa khalidwe labwino akadali wamng'ono . Ana ayenera kuphunzira makhalidwe kuchokera kwa akulu omwe ayenera kukhala zitsanzo zabwino. Pamene akukula, adzakhala ndi chidaliro chochuluka ngati akudziwa choti achite. Komanso, anthu ena amasangalala kukhala nawo pafupi.
"Ana omwe amagwira ntchito molimbika kwambiri masiku ano akuphunzira makhalidwe abwino popanda kuwaona."
~ Fred Astaire
"Mwana aliyense akhoza kuphunzitsidwa kukhala ndi khalidwe labwino popanda khama lalikulu kusiyana ndi kuleza mtima ndi kudekha, pamene kusiya makhalidwe oipa akapezedwa ndi ntchito ya Herculean."
~ Emily Post
"Tonsefe timabadwa mwachipongwe. Palibe mwana wakhanda amene adawonekapo koma ali ndichisomo kuti amvetsetse momwe kusokoneza ena pakati pa usiku kulibe kanthu."
~ Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
"Mwachibadwa ana amafanana ndi makolo awo ngakhale kuti amayesetsa kuwaphunzitsa makhalidwe abwino."
~ Author Unknown
Muzilemekeza Ena
Maziko a makhalidwe abwino ndi ulemu. Ngati simukulemekeza ena, ngakhale kudziŵa kuti foloko yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito nthawi yamadzulo ndi yosafunika. Mudzaonedwabe opanda pake. Ngati mumasonyeza ulemu kwa ena, ndibwino kuti abwerere kwa inu. Ngati sichoncho, kumbukirani kuti mwachita chinthu choyenera.
"Makhalidwe abwino ndi njira yosonyezera anthu ena kuti timawalemekeza."
~ Bill Kelly
"Kuchita zinthu molakwika ndi njira yosankha maganizo enieni."
Abele Stevens
"Moyo usakhale wochepa kwambiri koma nthawi zonse umakhala wochitira ulemu."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Kunyalanyaza ndi kuganizira ena kuli ngati kulipira ndalama ndi kupeza ndalama zambiri."
~ Thomas Sowell
"Ziribe kanthu kuti dzina la munthu ndi liti malinga ngati adzichita yekha."
~ LM Montgomery
Mawu Otsiriza pa Makhalidwe
Kukhala olemekezeka, olemekezeka, ndi okondweretsa n'kofunika pazochitika zonse zamagulu ndi zamalonda. Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners) ali ndi mawu omaliza apa:
"Khalidwe labwino ndilo khalidwe laumunthu la munthu. Ngati iwe uli wokhala pa phiri, iwe sumayenera kudandaula za khalidwe labwino, ngati wina akukwera phiri, ndiye kuti muli ndi vuto. m'madera ogwirizana. "