Mmene Mungayankhire Moni

Kodi mumayamba kudzikuza mukamaona munthu amene simukumuyembekezera? Kodi mwakumanapo ndi zochititsa manyazi komanso zovuta pamene simungaganizepo kanthu kena kamene munganene? Konzekerani nokha m'tsogolomu kotero kuti musagwidwe. Kukhala wokonzeka kungapangitse kusiyana pakati pa kudzidzimva ndi kudzidalira.

Mukakhala panja ndi pafupi, muli ndi mwayi wabwino kuti mukakumana ndi munthu amene mumamudziwa kapena mumakumana naye kale.

Ngakhale mutayesedwa kuti musamawone kapena kumva munthu wina ngati mukufulumira , ndibwino kuti mukhale ochezeka ndipo osapereka moni. Kuchita zimenezi kungakuyese iwe njoka , ndipo izi zidzakhala ndi iwe kwa nthawi yaitali.

Zoyenera kuchita

Mukawona munthu yemwe mumamudziwa, ndi mawonekedwe abwino kuyamba ndi kumwetulira . Ngati mkhalidwewo umalola, ndipo mulibe mapepala, mutambasule dzanja lanu ndikupereka dzanja lolimba . Ngati munthuyu ndi bwenzi lakale, mukhoza kufuna kukumbatirana, nenani mawu ena ochepa, ndipo sankhani nthawi yoti mukakumane nawo.

Ngati simukudziwa bwino munthuyo kapena mwinamwake mumamupeza kamodzi, simungakumbukire dzina lake . N'kovomerezeka kupepesa ndikupempha dzina lake kachiwiri. Bweretsani dzina lake ndiyeno tchulani dzina lanu kuti mumuthandize kukumbukira lanu.

Zimene Munganene

Nthawi zonse ndi zabwino kukhala ndi mayankho okonzekera nthawi yomwe mumawona nkhope zodziwika bwino. Ngati muli ndi nthawi, mukhoza kuima ndi kukambirana .

Apo ayi, lolani munthu winayo adziwe kuti mulibe nthawi yolankhulana, koma ndi bwino kumuwona. Ngati mukufuna kukambirana mtsogolo, perekani nambala yanu ya foni ndikulimbikitseni munthuyo kukuitanani nthawi ina.

Nazi njira zosavuta kuti muyankhule ndi moni:

• "Ndizosangalatsa kukuwonaninso. Perekani banja lanu chidwi changa."

• "Eya! Sindinakuonepo kanthawi."
• "Mmawa wabwino ndikulakalaka nditakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yolankhulana, koma ndimakhala ndi mphindi khumi ndi zisanu."
• "Ndiko kukuwonani bwino ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuchita bwino."
• "Ndikuchita bwino! Zikomo chifukwa chofunsa. Nanga bwanji inuyo?"
• "Wow! Zakhala zaka zambiri kuyambira pamene tidawonana wina ndi mzake. Tiyeni tibwererane posachedwa pamene tonsefe tili ndi nthawi yambiri yolankhulana."

Zimene Sitiyenera Kunena

Chinthu chimodzi chimene inu simukufuna kuchita ndikunena chinachake cholakwika kapena chirichonse chomwe chingasokonezedwe. Gwiritsani ntchito moni mwachidule kuti musatenge nthawi kuti mufotokoze zina. Musamufunse mafunso amwano omwe angapangitse munthu wina kukhala wosasangalatsa.

Nazi zinthu zina zomwe siziyenera kulankhulana moni mwachidule:

• "Kodi mwataya kulemera?"
• "Kodi iwe ndi mnyamata ameneyo munalonjeza kuti mudzakwatirane?"
• "Chilichonse chomwe chinachitika (lembani zosalemba)?"

Pewani Mtima

Mutha kuyesedwa kuti munene chinachake chimene chidzafuna kufotokoza kwachitali kapena kuyankha, koma ndibwino kuti mupulumutsire izo. Ngakhale mutamva zowawa, pokhapokha maso anu atafiira ndipo mphuno yanu ikutha , palibe chifukwa chogawana uthengawo panthawi yochepa moni.

Nazi zinthu zina zoopsa zomwe mungalankhule poyambira moni:

• "Zinthu sizinali zabwino kwa ine posachedwapa."

• "Kodi mwamva za (lembani zosalemba)?"
• "Ndi tsiku losauka."

Zinthu Zofunika Kuzikumbukira

Mukawona munthu pamsewu kapena kumsika , simukuyenera kumverera kuti mukuyenera kuimirira ndikucheza kwa nthawi yaitali. Mwayi ndikuti, muli panjira kwinakwake, komanso ndi munthu winayo. Ngati mukufuna kumakhala naye nthawi yambiri, funsani ngati mutha kuyitanitsa kenaka kuti mupange khofi kapena masana palimodzi. Ngati muli ndi khadi, mupatseni. Apo ayi, mungathe kulemba dzina lanu ndi nambala yake kuti muitane panthawi ina.

Yosinthidwa ndi Debby Mayne